ShaVaughn Elle 10/30/24 ShaVaughn Elle 10/30/24

Baby, You’ve Probably Been the Villain This Whole Time

Many of us have probably been in our “villain era” all ourselves and simply unaware that’s what it’s been. Let’s explore.

ShaVaughn Elle 10/16/24 ShaVaughn Elle 10/16/24

The Curious Villain: An Exploration of Self-mastery

An inside "look" of my thoughts on the villain arc.

ShaVaughn Elle 10/11/24 ShaVaughn Elle 10/11/24

Have We Been Viewing the Villain Wrong?

Unpacking the nuance of the villain as it pertains to self-mastery.

ShaVaughn Elle 9/30/24 ShaVaughn Elle 9/30/24

Venus for Vengeance: A look at Libra and her Scales

An exploration of the way vengeance shows up within the archetype of Venus.

ShaVaughn Elle 8/12/24 ShaVaughn Elle 8/12/24

Redefining Worship in Pleasure: The Self-pleasure Series

Culminating the self-pleasure series, we discuss a reframe to how you can worship yourself, as the living altar.

ShaVaughn Elle 7/12/24 ShaVaughn Elle 7/12/24

On Becoming the Living Altar: An Exploration in the Self-Pleasure Series

How can I be an altar that is living? I'm glad you asked. But first, let's get into the meaning and significance of an altar.

ShaVaughn Elle 7/8/24 ShaVaughn Elle 7/8/24

In ‘X-Men'97,” Storm Shows Us How to Remember Who We Are

By ravishing Storm’s fear, the Adversary creates the perception that the walls are closing in on her. But is it claustrophobia or being consumed by self-loathing over the loss of her power and subsequently feeling powerless?

ShaVaughn Elle 7/5/24 ShaVaughn Elle 7/5/24

The Detriments of the ‘Nice Girl’ Syndrome

Began my transition a couple years ago when I realized “nice” comes with a docile perception of one who’s easy to manipulate. People adore niceness. It’s the skip to my Lou energy people expect when they expect you to give them the benefit of the doubt…

ShaVaughn Elle 7/2/24 ShaVaughn Elle 7/2/24

Praise and Prayers for Pleasure: A Self-Pleasure Series

Thoughts of worshiping the body, especially another human body, feels gratuitous. The conditioning surrounding the linear perspective of praise, prayers, and worship is not easy to reframe but it begins with expanding our view.

ShaVaughn Elle 6/25/24 ShaVaughn Elle 6/25/24

Exploring Worship as a Pleasure Practice: A Self-Pleasure Series

I’m sure the thought of worship and pleasure may throw some of you off and you may opt out of finishing this written piece, but I implore you…

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